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Unknown
In 2020, I quit my job and decided to start working full time with my wife on the same project. When I say this, some people give me the she revealing. People look at me weird because they can never picture themselves working all day long in the same room with their spouse, but we manage to make it work and I like to believe that wasn't all luck and chances.
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Unknown
We do get along, but we don't get along all the time. And in order to sustain a long term project together, there are some rules that anyone need to follow in order for it to work. Most of all, to keep your sanity. And that's why my wife asked me why the pros and cons of working with your wife.
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Unknown
And this is exactly what I want to share today.
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Unknown
And
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Unknown
And we are like this. We literally are like this every single day. We do argue, don't get don't get us wrong, we do argue. And I think that is very important to say that is not always happy, happy marriage or forget it. But but we know exactly we know exactly really how to balance life work when I need this slap in the face.
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Unknown
He is always there to kind of, you know, shake me up and make things happen. And then whenever I feel down, you are super high and then vice versa. We are. It's almost like we're complementing each other. I have to say we are super lucky, you know, that we do get along. But I think we we really needed to kind of talk to each other and come to compromises and understanding what makes you happy, what doesn't make you happy, and vice versa.
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Unknown
So I understand there's a lot of understanding, but there is something I wanted to ask you. Maybe it is a little bit personal. Maybe, maybe not. But what do you think that there are the pros and cons to working with your partner right now? Because again, things can go right. You know, when things go right, they always go very well, boss.
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Unknown
There are times when when things get tough and there is a lot of work to do or whatever we have planned doesn't work. And I perfectly know that I go off of that and I'm freak out now. There is no tomorrow. I know that there are pros and cons to working with your partner. Let's start with the cons.
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Unknown
I guess that the obvious one is that of course you always we are always around each other and it doesn't matter how much we love each other, there's always going to be the time where you need your space and I need mine. And sometimes there can be friction there. And also there is no change of perspective on different on something new.
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Unknown
Like you had your job. I had my job. We can share something completely new and refreshed the relationship, but now we know everything about everything. What? What do we talk about? But that's. That's for me, the cons. And you've got to really be matched for make this work. But also you make it work because one of the pro things about doing business together is that you cannot fire each other like is not that easy and you don't you might don't want to do it.
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Unknown
You might be, you might. We love each other. We love we love each other. But I might hate you as a partner, but in this case, it's not. So if something is wrong, I'm naturally forced to face you. And because there is a problem we have to fix, we also fixing our relationship and the way we talk with each other so we can grow in our relationship and in business.
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Unknown
So I think that's a great plus if you can manage to to take a hit in the face and hear about your insecurities, sometimes it's something you don't want to hear, but you are the best person to tell me that because you love me and you know I can take it and I know you want to help me grow.
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Unknown
So I think it's a brilliant thing to work with your spouse if you find the right balance because there's a lot of growth in any angle you want to look at it. And I love that. I love that. I hope this gave you some hope. If you are trying to get your spouse on board with your project and start working together.
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Unknown
And I